COLE, RUBY M., 78, of Largo, died Friday Jan. 25, 1991) at Suncoast Hospital, Largo. She was born in Montreal and came here in 1986 from Messina, N.Y. She was a Protestant. Survivors include her husband, Paul F.; eight sons, four daughters, a sister, Pearl Ashley, Ogdensburg, N.Y.; 37 grandchildren; and several...