‘Comparison is the thief of joy’ It is easy to compare your skills and abilities to that of someone else, especially when they seem to do it so easily and elegantly. We see the person swimming so freely in the cool water while our own feet are burning on the hot pavement. The thing we tend to forget comparing is the amount of time and effort those with more success put in. Learning to swim takes dedication, effort and a little bit of drowning now and then. Sometimes you have to stop co...